Hard work always wins.

I always felt like I had a strong and disciplined work ethic. I think it’s a pre-requisite for self employment. However, these past several years, I’ve had the distinct pleasure of collaborating and partnering with another woman owned business that makes me look like I’m in slow motion. The most amazing thing is how this entrepreneur pulls it all together with such grace and humility. Her husband has had a very successful career that would tempt many women to stay at home and plan social outings. Not my friend. She knew she wanted a career and family and didn’t want to do it half way. She is all-in in everything she does. She gives her time to family, the community, and the incredible business she is building. She knows that our lives (both personal and work) aren’t about what you get but how much you give. Every time we interact, it is an enriching, learning experience for me. She asks me tough questions about my business; she provides insight on a personal level – like how she cooks all her family’s meals on Sunday for the entire week. I actually implemented that one a year ago, and it has been a lifesaver! She shares uncomfortable situations and how she is dealing with them. I treasure every interaction we have. I think many of us (including myself at times) have believed that you reach a point in life where you are just there. You’ve reached the top of your game. You’ve won the coveted prize. My friend has told me and showed me this is not the case and she’s invited me along on her journey. Because we are never there. We are a constant (very hard) work in progress!

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